Jessica Eovino, Zeta Tau Alpha

Looking back at my college career at the College of Charleston, it was the greatest 4 years of my life. The best memories by far are those that came from being a member of the Greek system at CofC. After my freshman year I felt as if something was missing from my college experience. Becoming a Greek filled that void. I joined Zeta Tau Alpha my sophomore year.  I wish that I had gone through formal recruitment as a freshman so that I could have had 4 years of being a Greek in college.

Thanks to being a member of a Greek organization I excelled more with my studies and became more involved on campus. My sister’s were so supportive of me and all my endeavors. I entered into an industry that was not common to most business majors – logistics. Being a member of a Greek organization helped me develop the courage and self confidence that I had the ability to try something different and to succeed.

You learn so many life lessons from being a Greek. You learn how to manage your time, write reports, pay bills, balance your check book (because most of your checks were written to your organization for t-shirts), team building skills and leadership skills.

Now, 13 years after I’ve graduated, I’m still active with my sorority. I’ve have the fortunate opportunity to serve as President of the local alumnae chapter,  General Advisor to my collegiate chapter and most recently serving as a National Officer for my sorority. Those leadership positions helped me to gain necessary leadership experience to excel into supervisory positions and manager positions within my corporate organization.

Every time I move to a new city, I know that I can contact the local alumnae chapter and I’ve got a great group of women who befriend me.

I still keep in contact with my sorority sisters from college in my chapter and members of other Greek organizations. Being a Greek really opened up lots of opportunities for me as a collegian and as a graduate.

Jessica Eovino ’97, Business Major / Intermodal Transportation Minor

Krystal Yeadon, Sigma Gamma Rho Sorority, Inc.

I am the only girl in my immediate family. Being a part of a Greek letter organization has given me the sisters I never had.  We all share an irreplaceable bond with one another. It has also given me an even bigger Greek family, which includes the rest of the Divine 9 sororities and fraternities. We realize that no matter what the letter, we’re all Greek together. We all work together for common purposes, such as serving our campus and community. Sometimes it can be challenging trying to keep up with your school work, job and Greek organization all at the same time, but school work definitely comes first. You just have to learn how to balance everything and not take on more than you can handle. For some reasons, higher expectations are put on Greeks. We are expected to have a certain GPA, even though we do the most on campus. Once you become a part of a Divine 9 sorority or fraternity, you not only become a member of a sorority or fraternity, but you also become a member of the National Pan-Hellenic Council, which means you work for and plan activities for both. Greeks are usually the most well-rounded people on campus because they are involved in several campus activities besides Greek life. Being a part of Sigma Gamma Rho Sorority, Incorporated has made me a more well-rounded person through scholarship by knowing that I had to maintain a certain GPA to stay in that organization, leadership by allowing me to take on leadership roles and hold leadership positions, service because I joined a sorority that strives to do service as our motto is “Greater Service, Greater Progress,” and fellowship by providing me with a new family I can bond with socially.

Krystal Yeadon ’10, Theatre (Performance) and Communication (Media Studies)

April Dupree, Kappa Alpha Theta

When I ran down Coming Street to the Kappa Alpha Theta house on bid day nearly 17 years ago, I don’t think I had a clue how much that day would eventually shape the woman I would become!  I think it is fair to say I was joining Greek Life for all the superficial reasons like the cute t-shirts and the broadened social scene.  The member education period and my initiation were the start of a growing appreciation for the more important parts of sorority membership – true sisterhood, leadership, and accountability, to name a few.  I remember waiting to cross the street one day and seeing one of my sisters on the adjacent corner.  I thought to myself how different we were and how our paths might not have crossed if not for Theta and how there were so many things about that woman that made me proud to call her my sister. I think that was my first “Ah ha!” moment.

A few years after graduating, I joined the Advisory Board for my chapter and eventually moved on to become a District officer, and just a few weeks ago was elected to Grand Council.  Volunteering for Theta has truly enriched my life in ways I could never have imagined.  The Fraternity principals and ideals I pledged to uphold as a collegian are still a guiding force in my life today. I’ve had the opportunity to hone the leadership skills I began to develop as a collegian.  I’ve made relationships that will last a lifetime with women who were toddlers when I pledged Theta and women who pledged Theta before I was born.  Perhaps the most rewarding experience has been to watch as women I mentored as a chapter advisor go on to become an advisor themselves.   Thetas have a saying, “Theta for a lifetime”, and for me, that is absolutely the truth!

April Pinkston DuPree ’96, Biochemistry Major

Diane Turgeon, Zeta Tau Alpha

I joined Zeta Tau Alpha in the fall of 1999, and have rarely been without a “Zeta Job” since then.  Beginning as a freshman, I served my chapter as Alumnae/Collegiate Relations Chair, Historian, and Secretary.  The leadership opportunities offered to me by my sorority were invaluable in preparing me for the working world.  I learned more about working as a team, crisis and conflict management, scheduling, and budgets than in any course I could have taken.  Those positions also looked very nice on my graduate school applications!  In my alumna life, ZTA has continued to offer me the opportunity to serve and grow as a leader.  I have held several offices in my local alumnae chapters and have served as an advisor to the chapter at the University of South Carolina.  I now serve in a national office as District President and oversee all seven alumnae chapters in South Carolina.  I receive leadership training at national conferences and get to work with Zetas around the state.  It’s an excellent resume builder!  My Greek affiliation has provided me with education, growth, and sisterhood beyond my college years.

– Dianne Turgeon ’03,  Geology

Will Munce, Sigma Nu

If you were to approach me three years ago and tell me I will pledge a fraternity in college, I most likely would have laughed in your face in the politest way possible; however, now I can honestly say that pledging Sigma Nu has been the best decision of my college career. Despite coming to Charleston with a fairly sizable safety net, I roomed with my best friend since 1st grade and my grandparents are twenty minutes away in Summerville, I decided to rush. When I met the brothers of Sigma Nu I came to realize that they had the same ambitions and values that I did and still do, and even though they might seem homogeneous to the outsider, they are actually very diverse. Greek life has since given me opportunities I never could have imagined. For the first time I was a member of a completely member run organization, and I whether I liked it or not, I was thrust in feet first. Being required to lead my peers with minimal adult support is one of the hardest things I’ve had to do, but I have learned more from it than any other outside the classroom experience. As I became a brother of Sigma Nu I was simultaneously welcomed as a member of the Greek community in which I have made countless friends and had irreplaceable experiences. Essentially, my Greek story one of taking a chance and being rewarded exponentially.

Will Munce  ’12, Business Administration

Kelsey Barbour, Delta Gamma

As I entered College of Charleston as a Freshman in the fall of 2009 I didn’t know a single person attending and my equestrian endeavors prevented me from being able to participate in recruitment. As a result I felt that I was the only person not in Greek Life and had no where and no one to turn to. I e-mailed the director of Greek Life to see which sororities were doing Spring Recruitment and discovered a new sorority was about to drop anchor at the College of Charleston. Little did I know that my new sisters in the Delta Gamma fraternity would be the ones that helped me through a very tough year. Whether I needed advice or just someone to talk to or hang out with the girls at DG were there supporting me. The wonderful part of joining a sorority or fraternity is as a pledge class all of you are going through the same slightly awkward procedure together. All of the bonding activities and meetings, no matter how “lame” or “boring” they may seem truly brings everyone closer together. In the end, no matter which organization you choose they’ll be there as your advocates, champions, and friends, and you as theirs.

Kelsey Barbour ’13

Lynne Bernthal, Phi Mu

Having pledged Phi Mu in the fall of 1963, I can truly say that making the decision to be Greek was a life-changing one. The College was, of course, still the very small campus and student body with everyone knowing their classmates. However, a need was still present to have a home, a shared bond, friendship on a deeper level, encouragement to succeed academically. So, these were all the things I thought I needed and did receive as a Greek at the College of Charleston. More importantly, however, my undergraduate Greek life began the finishing school of life for me. Throughout my collegiate experience, I began to develop leadership skills while learning how to work with many types of personalities. My professional, volunteer and personal successes are all directly attributable to my Greek experiences at the College of Charleston.

Lynne Mohrmann Bernthal ’67, German Major

Christine Heilman, Alpha Delta Pi

As a student coming to The College of Charleston from New Jersey I knew absolutely no one entering my freshmen year. I also was very involved in high school with volunteer work as well as school organizations and sports. When I came to college going through the recruitment process was a bit foreign to me but was also appealing. Going through recruitment in general helped me meet a lot of girls my age and after just a few days I knew Alpha Delta Pi was the right place for me. Joining Alpha Delta Pi helped me meet even more girls of all ages, from all over the country, with all kinds of personalities and form friendships with them as well. Just a few months after joining ADPi I had already been to mixers, volunteered at The Ronald McDonald House, and attended tons of fun sisterhood events. Soon after I ran for a position which required me to live in the sorority house my sophomore year. After living in the house I developed close friendships with girls I never had interacted with before. After my sophomore year I received an internship through a sorority sister of mine and one of the reasons the company said they hired me was because of my volunteer experience and leadership positions I have held in ADPi. As I approach my junior year I hold an executive board position and still stay close with my friends in other sororities who I met through rush as well as my sisters in ADPi.

-Christine Heilman ’12,  Communications

Dan Heredia, Phi Gamma Delta

When I came to CofC, I knew I wanted to be a part of something bigger than myself, an organization based on strong values that would help me develop as a person.  Being in a Greek organization has given me that opportunity.  By being a member of Greek Life and more specifically, The Fraternity of Phi Gamma Delta (FIJI), I have had the chance to establish many relationships through numerous social events, give back to the community through service projects, and become a much more confident and effective leader.  My fraternity has helped push me to a higher academic standard, contribute more to the school as well as the surrounding area, and provided me with an inseparable bond of brotherhood with those men that will excel in the careers they choose to pursue while maintaining a high degree of excellence in all other aspects of life. Proud to be a Phi Gam!

Dan Heredia ’12, Business Administration

Bob Pruett, Sigma Phi Epsilon

As an incoming freshman to the College of Charleston in August of 2007, I did not know a single other person nor had I ever been to Charleston aside from orientation. I was placed in College Lodge with an unfavorable roommate. I was every parents nightmare, as I had nothing good to say about my new situation. Before school started, considering the fact I didn’t know anyone, I decided the best way to go about making new friends was to immerse myself into the campus and what better way than Greek Life. Although I had no interest in joining a fraternity, I went to a few Greek events including the Greek fair (Cougar Carnival) behind Addlestone library. It was at this point in time that I first saw a glimpse of an environment and group of people that I could see myself associating with. I met so many “stand up”, genuine people from multiple different fraternities/sororities that I was intrigued to give rush a try. From there I went from knowing no one and having nothing to do, to meeting hundreds of people; many of which were calling/texting me to come hang out. Although to many this may have seemed like a facade, this gave me a hospitable and welcoming experience. Within the first two weeks of school I went from hating college to believing it was the best thing since sliced bread. Since then my involvement and affiliation in Greek life here at the college has taken the snowball effect. I have met more and more people, learned of and participated in events I wouldn’t have otherwise, and stepped outside of myself. It has also provided many opportunities to assume leadership positions within my fraternity, our internal events, or school sponsored events. In many ways the influences of SigEp have acted as stepping stones towards higher education and self awareness. Observing the accomplishments of surrounding brothers, taking on responsibility in leadership roles, and team/group oriented events have all driven me to act and become a more qualified and knowledgeable individual. In my three years of experience, I have taken away countless lessons that can and will easily be applied to life after college. I was a three season varsity sport athlete in high school. Therefore, coming to college and having roughly three hours of class Monday through Friday left me with more free time than I had ever previously experienced. With such a flexible schedule, the need for organization and determination disappeared. As such, I needed to fill in the gap and did so by joining SigEp. My involvement in SigEp essentially acted like a year round varsity sport, as it had a large time commitment and reaped endless rewards. Simply stated, SigEp keeps me motivated and driven as it structures my free time effectively and efficiently providing me with worthy challenges and goals. If it hadn’t been for SigEp, I probably would have transferred within the first month.

– Bob Pruett ’11, Economics