Gratitude, Growth, and Graduation
A Senior’s Reflections on the Lessons She’ll Carry Beyond the Bricks
As a graduating senior, if I could offer one piece of advice to underclassmen, it would be this: be patient, be kind, and be grateful.
My first course at the College of Charleston was an interpersonal communication class with Dr. Merrissa Ferrara. Throughout the course, we were encouraged to share what we were grateful for. Some days, I was grateful for my family and friends; other days, for the sunshine, SZA, or seeing cute dogs. Being grateful for both the little and the big things truly helped me throughout my four years at CofC.
When I would go to class, dragging my feet, tired, and just wanting to be in bed, I would get to campus, take a deep breath, and remember: I get to be here. I fell in love with the College the moment I arrived, and that feeling has only deepened. I’m grateful for the people, the professors, the opportunities, and every path I crossed along the way.
Two especially meaningful experiences during my final year at the College have been my time working at the Career Center and being a Martin Scholar.
In August of 2024, two wonderful things happened to me: I had my first class with 11 other members of my Martin Scholars cohort, and I started as a Peer Career Advisor (PCA). As a PCA, I held drop-in hours open to the entire student body and assisted students who needed quick career advice, from resume and cover letter help to interview preparation and job search strategies.
Working at the Career Center has been so rewarding. We had students who would come back week after week until they felt their resume was perfect or who would come in every day for interview prep until the big day. Many times, students would stop me on the street and say, “You helped me with my resume, and I got the job, thank you so much!” Seeing how rewarding it was to help others made me forever grateful for that experience. To the Career Center: may I always tell people how great you all are, from resume building and helping students land a dream job to offering a shoulder to cry on. You are there for students, through and through.
Additionally, I am immensely grateful for being a Martin Scholar, a program started by the wonderful Tom Martin. We formed a close-knit group of 12 scholars and learned valuable life skills, visited amazing companies in Atlanta, D.C., and NYC, and gained invaluable mentors. Most importantly, we drew strength from one another and learned from each other. Instead of being jealous or competitive, we helped one another grow. If someone had a strength, I took it as an opportunity to learn, be curious, and ask questions. Whether we were reviewing each other’s cover letters or sharing a laugh after class, we formed friendships that allowed us to uplift each other and grow both personally and professionally.
Lastly, I will forever be grateful to my capstone professor, Dr. Goodier. She taught me not only lifelong leadership skills but also how to be a better person, coworker, student, and friend. Her support and guidance helped me gain confidence and become more empathetic and supportive of others.
This is a love letter to everyone I have ever met in college. We crossed paths for a reason, and I will always be grateful for it.
Until next time,
Emilia Feltner
B.A. Communication, May 2025
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